I have loss of confidence at times (bad hair day, when at a dance club, when facing other men who also hit on my woman etc..) and notice that most women don’t even approach me and stare at me with dislike during those times. On the other hand, when drunk, I am quite confident and even insult women a bit and they love it (I am not lying — and I just insult them to get back at the times when they insult my being nice, but unconfident). Even guys who are murderers get women after coming out of jail because of confidence. In today’s age where you can make money off the internet, is confidence really necessary? Why do women never go out with unconfident guys (there is such a guy in my office who is very good looking, but has zero confidence and zero girls)?
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September 20th, 2009 at 8:37 am
Real women like real men. Insecure women like insecure men. It’s very simple.
September 20th, 2009 at 1:28 pm
I do not if this will help.I am 47 white male and still in the
singles market.I am shy and that seems to turn women off.
Over time the syness would go away once they got to know me.
As far as murderers getting out of prison,women like bad asses.They think the tougher they are the better.For example in high school girls will not go out with shy,unpopular boys or those that get bullied.They want
to go out with the popular guys who are bad asses.
I could not get a date when I was a teen to save my life.
For that guy in your office ask him to join you and some
office friends for happy hour at a bar after work.
September 20th, 2009 at 7:43 pm
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September 21st, 2009 at 12:07 am
WOMEN LIKE STRONG MEN THAT ARE COMFORTABLE WITH THEM SELVES OTHER WISE THERS JUST TO MUCH DRAMA
September 21st, 2009 at 4:18 am
let me ask you this? why would a man say about him he is uncomfident ??? dont say that about your self, keep your head up and be your self and never change the way you brought up because girls dislike that?? you just meet the wrong girls beside the club is not really a good place to meet girls ???
September 21st, 2009 at 8:08 am
If you think the guy in your office is “very good looking” why don’t you go out with him?
September 21st, 2009 at 12:40 pm
A lot of women want a man who is capable of protecting them nd taking care of them. (Even if they are totally self sufficient, they still want the man to be ABLE to do this.) Loss of confidence is taken as a sign of weakness and therefore undesirable.
September 21st, 2009 at 3:01 pm
you gotta be confident cause it shows something about you think about .AUTHORITY is sort of Wat you need
September 21st, 2009 at 7:56 pm
because most women feel that the guy should be stronger than she is and if he doesn’t have confidence then that weakens him.
September 21st, 2009 at 9:23 pm
Because they know they will never see an O from them…
September 22nd, 2009 at 1:15 am
Watch the lion king and then ask that question again :]
September 22nd, 2009 at 7:03 am
dunno, I am a guy.
September 22nd, 2009 at 8:01 am
Biology. Just like men are programmed to try to mate with as many women as they can, so women are wired inside to seek the strongest male. Watch the animals around you: as mammals, we do just what the other animals do, only in what seems like a more complex way. Same old story.
September 22nd, 2009 at 10:22 am
Uh….er….I….I don’t know, er that is to say….I don’t think I can really put in a way that is….let me put it another way…I think, I mean, I KNOW..I mean, I wish I had my encyclopedia here for reference, because I read about this the other day….hmmm…uh….Hey….why are you rolling your eyes and walking the other direction, girls….? GIRLS?
September 22nd, 2009 at 5:09 pm
I’ve heard women say they go out for bad boys coz they feel like those type of dudes can protect them…but from what I see…it’s not the bad boys theyre going after…it’s the bullies..yer on yer own bro…
September 22nd, 2009 at 9:32 pm
Probably because the girls don’t feel good with those that lack confidence. They don’t feel the guy will take care of them, will have fun with them or such because it is pretty obvious he will have most of his attention on himself and maybe his failings to have attention on her or anything else. Too introverted. Not enough outgoing energy. Too much the victim and not enough hero.
September 23rd, 2009 at 3:41 am
Personally my Mr. is very confident (people think). Although this is just his guard up moad. At home he is not this way with us (I know him lol).
Insulting is not cool, could get your butt kicked around where we live….
Try sticking up for the girl you are with, this is respect for her. If she is nothing to you but someone you are talking to at the bar then you really do not have anything to be mad at. Work on the confidence around other men….this is what it sounds like to me where you are lacking. A guy who is nervous around women I think is cute!! You have to look at where you are trying to find that “one” gal too. Try going outside of a bar to find a gal….