Ok, so I’m a guy with Alopecia. For those that don’t know it’s hair loss and something I’ve had since I was 4. Obviously it was harder when I was younger but now no one even knows and I only tell them if they ask. I know one girl said she loved how I had smooth skin and asked if I shaved, I told her no I have Alopecia and explained it to her. I told her the only part that really bothers me is I can’t grow a beard and she just said that is the least of your worries. Pretty much I made it like I didn’t care, but deep down I really do because so many women are shallow and just won’t give me a chance without even knowing the condition. I’d ask this girl out but she already has a boyfriend who happens to be one of my best friends and I’d never do that to a friend of mine. I come off like I don’t care but considering I’ve had one girlfriend truth is, I do care I just don’t show it. So I’m rambled on enough, are there girls out there that would care date me and not care about this kind of thing? I know some girls think it’s sexy but for every girl that does I think there is probably 5 that would hate it and think it’s ugly.
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September 27th, 2009 at 4:01 pm
I see girls dating bald guys all the time, and I have dated a few myself. It probably isn’t that big of a deal to a lot of girls. A lot of guys shave their heads now days anyway. The older you get the less of an issue this will be.
September 27th, 2009 at 9:37 pm
My uncle has had alopecia since he was 9. He was pretty much the most popular guy in highschool and all the girls loved him. Now, he is in his 30s and still has attractive women hitting on him all the time! Everyone thinks he looks sexy and badass and he isn’t insecure about it. If you are confident, people won’t even think twice about it.
September 28th, 2009 at 3:41 am
Yes they would.
Girls will date guys without hair, or an arm(s), or a leg(s), or money, or a house, or a car, or even a sense of humor.
The most important thing is that you become comfortable with it.
September 28th, 2009 at 7:23 am
some girls like bald guys trust you will get a girl because thats is just a rock in your path all you have to do is jump over it and keep going if you have a good personality and ok loks you will be find
September 28th, 2009 at 11:12 am
why not ?????
it is what you think not other people
September 28th, 2009 at 11:34 am
A friend of mine has it and I think he’s really sexy. Yes i would date someone with it if i liked them as a person.
If it’s any help a newspaper report here did a report on what girls didn’t like and beards came in the top 10. Think it was 2nd or 3rd. I showed it to my boyfriend at the time as he was lazy about shaving. Not washing and bad breath were others in the list.
You must bear in mind for most guys one or two girls will like them and others won’t be interested.
September 28th, 2009 at 3:10 pm
Why not? To me, hair’s just a physical thing. It’s not important in the long run. As a matter of fact, it’s barely a factor I take in when I look for guys. You can be bald and still be hot! It doesn’t matter how much hair you have. And I think it’s great that you don’t have any facial hair. I hate facial hair on guys. Too scratchy and stubbly. Be proud of your smooth skin
A great girl wouldn’t mind that at all. Trust me. You’ll find her.
September 28th, 2009 at 9:30 pm
I think that there are different things that women like. The question you are asking is just any girl in general and the answer is yes there are girls that will not care. But the way you explained it it sounds like you are talking about a specific girl here, and well if she did not like it, don’t get discouraged and see what’s out there. Just because she doesn’t find it attractive that does not mean that all women will find it unattractive. Also do not give it too much importance of feel to self conscious about it. We can tell when a guy is too self conscious or insecure. Once you give it less importance, others will too. Don’t talk too much about it and concentrate on your qualities. And don’t worry some people like me prefer smooth skin on men. Good luck with the girl, tc.
September 29th, 2009 at 2:57 am
Some girls are shallow but I’d honestly think that your a good guy from just reading your question. Try talking to girls and opening up to some of them.
One of my friends is disabled and he got married last year, His wife was beautiful also. People out there are willing to marry someone and take things like sickness and throw it away.
There is person out there for everyone.