Question by Evergreen: Typhoid treatment. Did my doctor abuse me?
A few months back I was diagnosed for Typhoid and according to the instructions of a reputed Doctor who was also like a friend to me (more like a family doctor coz he lived in my neighborhood) was admitted in the hospital were he practiced. My sister was my bystander. The first few days during his rounds he came to me and asked me how I was feeling and then palpated my stomach area and went. During the second last day in the hospital, as usual he came during his rounds accompanied with a nurse to inspect me. My sister was not there since she had to go for an urgent meeting in her office. Doctor had asked me were she was and I told him she would come back in the evening since she had to go to office urgently. He cut short some medicines in the prescription and said I am alright and can leave after one more day and left the room.
To my surprise the doctor returned to my room after about say 20 minutes and closed the door. This time he was alone. He said he was busy during his rounds and he could not instruct me properly. He then started to inspect my stomach, pressed it in deep and asked me if I felt any pain. Later he said that since I was on heavy dose treatment for Typhoid, there are chances that the medicines create some lump sort of formation on my breasts. He asked me if I was having hair-loss from my pubic area.Telling this he asked me to unhook my bra and he slid both his hand under my churidhar top (one from the neck portion and the other from the stomach side) and started what he called palpating my breasts. I was feeling more uncomfortable when he did it with my nipples. He spend almost two minutes doing this and then retired. He asked me to continue doing this on my own for next few days since chances are that I might develop these lumps due to side effect of the medicines.
My questions are:
1) Did my Doctor abuse me? Did he take undue advantage of his profession or is he genuine?
2) Is there a chance for Typhoid/ Typhoid treatment side effect- to form Lumps on female breasts?
3) What should I do now if he had done this to me on purpose? I am an unmarried woman and don’t want to get into controversies which would affect my regular life.
Serious and sincere guidelines are requested…Please help
Best answer:
Answer by The mom
What your doctor did was so unprofessional that I am at a loss for words. No decent or responsible male doctor EVER examines a female patient without another female in the room. I’m not aware of any medication used to treat Typhoid that causes lumps in the breasts to form. I would not ever let that doctor lay hands on you ever again, under any circumstances. So far as what you should do, for a start, you should tell your parents and report this matter to the hospital where you were a patient. I’d also tell any other females you know that he did this, and to ensure they never allow him to examine them without another female in the room with them. You can also stop a doctor from continuing with any exam, especially if it makes you feel uncomfortable. Never ever let a doctor of either sex do a hands-on exam without insisting you have a chaperone in the room with you. That’s the best way to protect yourself in the future. While I understand you wish not to disrupt your normal life over this, you must consider that you are most likely NOT the first woman he has done this to, and will not be the last unless you do speak up. Unless you want some other young girl taken advantage of in the way you were, you will warn people. They can choose to believe you or not, but at least you will have the satisfaction of knowing you were not a silent victim, and you did all you could. I’m so sorry this happened to you. It shouldn’t have. Unfortunately, even in the medical profession, there are disgusting individuals who take advantage of their trusted positions.
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