Why?…a Black Woman’s Question About White Men…supposedly Left Behind As Well.?
Posted by: in women hair lossWhy most people (not all) look at relationships between black men and white women as a loss for black women and not a loss for white males as well? Why is it that these same individuals are not making rude remarks towards white males, such as: “Why are white women leaving their men behind for black men? Why are white men so jealous of black men dating white women? I hear white men just cannot keep their women satisfied that is why they are leaving them. White men are so jealous of black men because they have sexy bodies, because they are well endowed, and because they have so much charm. Why do white men have a nasty look on their face when they see me with my black boyfriend in public? White men are so plain looking, lame, and wish they were hot like black men, that is why they imitate them so much.” (Please understand (white men) before you respond) These are not facts (I have not had a conversation with any, or all white men), I am only putting a twist on the questions, or comments that people often ask/remark about black females. I ask you, how would feel being placed in a situation for which you really are not losing any sleep over. Well this is how it feels and why it angers some black women. It is not what is happening (interracially), but the way individuals assume you are responding without knowing the facts. So to anyone who is so keen on making these assumptions about black women please rethink it. We are not all jealous and do not assume because we appear angry when you walk in with you new man that it is you/he that has put that reaction on our face. Life happens to us all and it may have nothing to do with who is with whom. We are not all jealous of you hair, if I am correct you are not the only race of women with long flowing hair, Spanish, Chinese, etc all have hair like that. I am just saying why the bashing of the sistas and not white men because I know they are not all happy with so many of their women abandoning ship. This is just my observation. One more point, the countless women on this site making nasty remarks and comments are usually the ones who are really just looking for some validation and merit to boost their low self esteem because anyone in a loving relationship would not have time to worry about what black women feel or why the react a certain way. If you notice the sneer and jeers, so much that tells me you spend too much time looking at them as well. No, I am not “the pot calling the kettle black,” but I am a black woman who feels it is time to stick up for my sistas; we are being berated at an alarming rate.
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